What do you do with memories?

What do you do with memories that bring pain and sadness?
Do you destroy them in your attempt to move on? Or do you keep them close to your heart and bring it up every once in a while when it calls? Or do you keep them deep in your heart chamber but not bring them up at all?

I have a problem with managing my memories recently. Tend to like to bring it out every once in a while as though it needs some dusting and... to simply smell the fresh air. However, something tells me that it's time to keep it as memories and move on. But yet again, it doesn't seem right to bury it and seem as though it has never happened. What do I do with memories that went out of control?

Been thinking of moving blog for some time... because my wretch account allows me to post on wuchun's guestbook, and it seems silly to have a blogspace that's empty. But there's so much memories on this blogspot blogspace. And now... it feels almost as though if I continue blogging here, she will still be able to read my entries in heaven. Silly I know... to think like that, but the memories here are too precious for me to give up.