Friday, January 09, 2009

Not to forget to live

A quick visit back to my sunny island is actually pretty rewarding... apart from being able to savour my favorite food and meet some of my favorite people on Earth, I was also able to see my friends settling into their new working life and to actually feel the differences going to Japan had made to me. A friend of mine commented, "you are enjoying the quality of life"... while my friends in Singapore work more than 12 hours every day with no "life" to talk about, I work no more than 10 hours per day (despite being a workaholic) and is able to enjoy beautiful scenaries, pottery lessons, free performances by the local choral groups etc etc etc... (my FYP mentor thinks I am nuts to be spending time on these things.. ^^;;)

I am reminded to not take what I am enjoying forgranted and to savour every moment I have at the land of the raising sun. This may afterall be THE time of my life.

Sunday, January 04, 2009

对人没有期望

有的人觉得我很成熟,不会去要求身边的人对自己好,对自己温柔等等~
每当被人这么说我就很纳闷…… 怎么说呢~ 因为心里从来没有“指望”有人会对我好吧~
心中某处对人性是鄙视的,觉得人都是自私的。 只有自己才能对自己好。
因此,当有朋友对我无条件的好的时候,我都会特别感动,更会觉得必须回报人家~ 对人家双倍的好。