Wednesday, August 19, 2009

真正的关心

回到了都市生活,
随着忙碌的生活节奏和利益争夺的生活环境所带来的,
是淡泊的人情和所谓的物竞天择的想法。
可是人,需要那么多物质才能过生活吗?
短短的几十年,我们需要那么多物质吗?
如果过得不快乐,物质上的富裕有意义吗?
我在日本遇到的是真正关心我快乐的人……

学校的护士会因为担心我在日本一个人生病没人照顾而在放工后到我家给我送爱心礼包
因为担心我一个人在外国不敢出去玩专门带我出去逛逛
我同事因为担心我冬天着凉而教我如何保暖
每次有新的宴会场所他们都会特别问我会不会自己去,给我画地图等等
因为我是女生,每次宴会他们都会特别注意我可以安全回家
家长会因为知道我喜欢吴尊而帮我录他的电视节目
我同事会因为觉得一个人回新加坡太寂寞而专门跑来机场给我送行

等等等

他们是毫无条件的,单纯的希望我安全,希望我健康,希望我快乐而帮我做了好多好多……
我到底为他们做了什么呢?
老实说,我也不知道。
好惭愧……

Tuesday, August 04, 2009

A few things to remember

Before I throw myself into a twillpool and lose myself in it, there are a few things that I want to make sure I remember.

1) Be nice to people. Not every one is as strong as we are. Even if they are, being nice to others makes the world a nicer place to live in.

2) Be nice to myself. Life is short and living everyday is an accomplishment on its own. Appauld yourself because you've done a great job so far.

3) Just keep going. Even if the going gets tough, nothing is forever. Keep going and things will be okay. Somehow.

4) Be appreciative. Nobody owes me anything.

5) A nice word can easily make someone's day. It never harms to be polite and pleasant.

6) Being happy. Because being unhappy only makes things worse for myself.

7) Live everyday to the fullest with my best effort. Because that's the way to live without regrets.

8) Always take time out for others. Even if I am busy.

9) Don't get lost in the rat race. Walk through it knowing what I know and don't lose purpose and meaning along the way.

10) Keep dreaming. Because it's the driving force for life.